However, you shouldn’t practice flirting or engaging in sexual conversations until you are skilled at doing that OUTSIDE of the work environment.All guys make mistakes when they first learn how to flirt with women and making such mistakes in the workplace will often end up getting him in trouble.So it’s best to think beforehand of that moment when everyone will be aware of your secret.You could try talking to your superior about this before he would hear it from anyone else, explain how the relation is not going to affect your work.There are some steps, more like tips, that you can take a look at before planning your next date with your cubicle neighbor: As I already mentioned, before jumping into anything, give it a really good thought.I know Jake from the next cubicle might seem hot and witty but what if after three dates you end up hating each other?In my case it happened really slowly and then one day we realized we were dating, the label just appeared out of nowhere and there it was. The good part was that by the time our relationship came to an end neither of us was working at the same spot any more.
All in all, the decision obviously lies in your hands but the main advice is to think it through before it’s too late and see the matter from as many perspectives as possible and assess whether it’s worth it or not.
Even if you, personally have not yet lived through the situation of dating one of your coworkers, just bear in mind that it’s never too late.
There is probably an unwritten law somewhere about dating someone you work with and it has a huge “no” attached to it, but sometimes we fall into temptation.
I don’t need to mention not to show your affection in public at work, right?
Given that you are going to date for a while, the relationship won’t stay a secret forever.Following the same pattern, you wouldn’t be silly to think that your workplace might be a great place to meet a woman…but is it really?