Some of them just want to let loose and have fun in a relatively liberal society.As always, there are exceptions and you will find a fine Indian gentleman to date irrespective of his immigration status!The head of the family decides who and when one should marry, keeping Patriarchy well and truly alive. As Rishab Goel says, “ mama’s boy, how can they be anything else but? A Chennai mom instructs a mom in Jaipur on the intricacies of making Idli/Sambhar for her son studying in Jaipur.Remember how thrilled a mother is when the baby takes her first step? The mom promptly makes a batch and delivers to him in his college.He wants you to suddenly become a chameleon, docile potential bride to his mother, cool indulgent brat to his siblings and cool sophisticate to his colleagues, an endless list really.All your “cute” traits – the somewhat loud laughter or your messy hair, become liabilities as you go about meeting his “people”.He wants you to meet his parents his siblings, his friends, his favourite teacher, practically everyone!
In the interest of leaving the page with a warm, fuzzy feeling after an enlightening read, let us just get the ugly out of the way first! Remember Harry Potter trying to get a date for the dance in “The Goblet of Fire”? Be assured every gesture, every word, every smile, every look of yours will be dissected, none too gently, once you are out of the picture.
They just assume all western women drink, smoke and a lead a carefree life!