I've had opportunitiies in the past but also have froze up Background: I think i'm a decent looking guy, I work out, try to dress well, etc. Before going on the dating apps, I dated 2 guys I met IRL. I feel unwanted and now am at the point where if anyone shows interest in me, I'm like why? I met a guy right before I did and we went on one date. He's new to my area, so I figured he just needed friends or someone to show him around.
It’s just that I am very guarded against letting people in romantically. I saw a lot of posts that suggest therapy and that maybe a good place to start.Now I just feel like that's never going to happen. I look at other girls, and wonder, how do they find someone who likes who they are? I just feel like a couple of weeks later he will also just decide there's other girls out there and peace out like the rest of them.