That’s when “French Women Don’t Get Fat,” the sanctimonious anti-dieting diet book by Mireille Guiliano — followed by “French Women Don’t Get Facelifts and French Children Don’t Throw Food” — was released to worldwide acclaim.Suddenly, women as a collective seemed to decide that yes, they’d really rather be French sil-vous-plait and no, they have no problem wearing exclusively horizontal stripes and red lipstick and never paying for a gym membership — French women don’t work out, didn’t you know that? A flurry of books raced into publication promising to help you become a Parisian “no matter where you are.” Brands like French Girl Organics offered to help you achieve the effortless no-makeup-makeup look of, um, French girls.Preserve the mystery about yourself and don’t immediately make the discussion about you, your interests or successes.A real flirter makes the other person feel special.It-filles like the sisters Lou Doillon and Charlotte Gainsbourg and Instagram superstar Jeanne Damas rose to prominence.(Damas has a clothing brand called Rouje which retails exclusively tweed blazers, sexy little wrap dresses and suede ankle boots.) It’s a racket. And this month a fresh entry into the genre is launched: The book “Parisian Charm School: French Secrets To Captivating A Man’s Heart.” Could the French girl myth help you land a boyfriend? What, I thought, am I going to be told to go out with messy hair, eat lots of cheese, drink lots of wine and always have sex on the first date? Well, let’s put it that way I Iearned this word (in that context) about 10 years ago when I first came to the USA Basically, once you kiss a lady…. (I’ve never done it but I have acquaintances/friends who did and, well, they knew what they were in for with their partners) Despite those are the rules to use for a lot of French girls, when we move out here, we try as best as we can to go along with the NY dating standards (despite the complaint. Some Frenchmen do enjoy being non-exclusivity and dating different women at once (Many will understand why ;-)) Any questions or need for advice about French dating?
To amuse the person you want to seduce – and don’t be afraid to laugh at yourself too – be lighthearted… Show him that you’re pleased to be in such good company.
To flirt, find the right words to impress, make no mistakes in speaking and cultivate good expressions.
Mix the buzzwords and some older turns of phrase in order to promote your intellect or flaunt your personal interests or originality. Simply be curious about the other person and their interests. To seduce you have to have both questions and knowledge.
Demonstrate to the chosen one that you are ready to wait; the person will be even more flattered or anxious.
Resist showing any eagerness and let time take its course.
I’ve met people from different countries, different American states etc. They excused her behavior by the fact that she was French. If you want to be more subtile, tell her that you know the French rules ( See explanations below).