I tried to over look it as we seemed to hit it off pretty well.Well since I only saw her once a week, I found out several weeks later how much of an addict she was.Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick!Some forums can only be seen by registered members.Something really bad has to happen for her to even have a chance. As far as for me, I just can't deal with this anymore.For some reason I can't stand to be around her anymore or even talk to her on the phone when I can hear her light up and smoke!I have always been against smoking as I saw what my Dad went through, he was a chain smoker for 33 years until he was set free when he (lucky for him) got very sick for 10 days and was hospitalized; when he left the hospital he thought he better not light another up as he had gone this far and made it! I never smoked and always found women who smoked a turn off.
I should of walked at that point, but I foolishly stayed. And as a fellow human being I wanted to help her save her life.I wish I could just get over this somehow and let her deal with this on her own. Lesson learned: Non Smokers should never date a Smoker!